BeChAbYgOlLyWow

wen u luv someone say it out loud..
alisin ang PRIDE s srili ang mhalaga
alam niyang mahal mo sya,
wag mgisip n d k niya mahal

Message:
May isang girl
na naghihintay
sa kanyang boyfriend..

[1st
day]
She sent a msg:
"Miss u na! Wat tym ka ppunta?

She’s waiting for the reply
kaso waLa..

?lt;/SPAN>2nd
msg:?lt;BR>"I
txtd u knina pro
bkt dka ngrepLy?
Wt tym kba ppunta?
I need

ur

answer asap!!
But she waited
for 5 hours La pa ring repLy..
Sa sobrang asar
ini-off nya ang CP nya…
And said…
"I will not open this cell
unLess ppunta xa d2…
After few minutes
nka2Log Na rin xa…

[2nd
DAY]
She’s still
wating for her boyfriend..
Mag pparing sa fone tp0s ba2..
she told herself…
"does he luv me p b?!"
"he knows nmn pg ng pa2ring akoh…
i’m expcting his call…"
untill its evening no one came,
no one called…
her CP still off..

[3rd
DAY]
>she’s still w8ting; ng pa2ring
after a few hours d fone rung…
she ans it quickly…
"hello"
>on d other line..
"hon…ilove u very much..
bglng ng busy..
glit n glit na umupo sa s0fa..
at nano0d ng t.v…
>after a few mins…
my kumatok
she stood quickly…nd opend d do0r…
she was surprised when she saw her bf
standing outside d do0r…
> w/ go0d looks..white long sleeves… nd
white pants…
d guy says…
"come w/ me… yaAn moh
kng bumwi sau"
she ans…
"w8 ill juz…..
"come lets go…
>after few mins. they’re on d plce…
sa houz ng guy…
knbahan xa….
she’s asking….
wat happend…
bat ang dming tao…at my
red light….
wats that..?! (she stopped 4 a while)
"

ur

mom"
>wlng sg0t..d guy 0nly
lo0ked at her face…
>bglng may 2mwg s knya…
She was shocked when she saw d guy’s
mom
crying and embraced her…
"c0me w/ me!
>sa buong pg aaklng nksunod
sa knya ang guy….
on d do0r….she was shocked when
she saw a dead person infr0nt
of her…..
she lo0ks at her back…
but d guy is g0ne…..
>where did he go.. wla nmn xang
nkitang dumAan infr0nt of her…
d mother said…
"bat ngaun k lng pumunta
khp0n p koh ng te2xt sau!
per0 nk-off ang phone moh…

she opend her CP nd sit 4 a while…
nd read d msg…
there were 5 unread msgs…

>she open d 1st msg..
"hija, my s0n is now 50/50
c0me here he neede u…
>2nd
msg…
"pls c0me hir or reply….i need it now…"

>3rd
msg…
"my s0n is
on comatose….
can u visit him now
you’re his strength"…

>4th
msg…
"hija my
s0n is dead"
and then she cried knowing..
that her love is now gone in her lyf…
>naicp nya ung ngyri…..
she’s with d guy
for the past few hours….
and she thought, thought and thought…
hanggang dumating
ang knyng pag iicp
sa guy….
"c0me lets go"….
"dalawin moh nmn ako..
khit sa huling araw ng lamay koh…!

pls repost this story….

b coz this story gives u the idea that..
d person u love….might soon be gone
anytym….
dont hesitate to tell them that u luv them
so
much!!

i believe dat anytym u could lose someone
you love…
kahit gano moh cya kamahal…
kahit gano kayo nagpakahirap pra lamang
sa
pagmamahal..
sometyms der will come a wrong tym..
dat u myt lose that someone that u really
love most!!

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  Love in the Hands of Discipline

A positive self esteem will help your child take on challenges, achieve better, live happier, make friends and cope in acceptable ways with the stresses of living. Most websites I saw will have you believe that if you criticize your child you lower their self esteem and by praising them you increase it. But the truth is far from such 1 -2 -3. A positive self esteem in such a scenario does not come automatically. It needs to be nurtured by parents who understand that they must share their pain as well as their glory with the kids they are bringing up.
Give Credit where it is due: Consistently applaud genuine EFFORTS made by your child. Help them understand how to convert efforts to results. A corollary is that you should let them feel proud of how they are shaping up, rather than keeping credit for parenting them well. Let them know it is up to them to be good or bad, happy or sad, appreciated or despised.
Do NOT Praise Excessively: Don’t tell them they are the best at an activity when they are not. Kids are internally programmed to learn and will benefit much more from a realistic feedback than unbound praise. Remember the rest of the world will give them accurate feedback and you don’t want to lose credibility.
Train them to Earn Their Rewards: When they ask you for a favour or even money to buy a candy, let them plan for it, work for it and "earn" it. It will give them a sense of self worth money can’t buy.
Give Them Responsibilities: In keeping with their age, let them be responsible for clothing themselves, clearing the dinner table, making the beds, putting away their toys or whatever else. Let them feel useful in the household.
Let Them Fall and Rise Up: This is a tough one especially since we want to protect them from all hurt. Still don’t rush to help them out of their predicaments. Help them figure out a way of getting out of their tangles.
Give Choices: In matters where you can risk it, let them make their own decisions and ask them to justify them to you. Display your trust in their judgement. Let them set their bedtime, playtime and TV time. Let them work out the effect of their choices and learn from mistakes. The best gift you can give them is to praise their judgement.
Discipline, Discipline, Discipline: Never be afraid to discipline your child. Be reasonable, be consistent and don’t let your temper run away with you. Beyond that, set limits, make sure they are adhered to. Limits give kids a sense of security and also build self esteem.
Too much of love will not spoil your kid, but how you express it may well decide whether or not your child will turn out to be a fine and balanced grown up.