BeChAbYgOlLyWow

People come into  your    life  for  a REASON,  a  SEASON  or  a LIFETIME.  When you  know  which  one  it  is, you  will know  what  to  do  for  that  person. When  someone  is  in  your  life  for  a  reason,  it  is  usually  meet  a   need  you  have   expressed. They  have  come  to  assist  you  through  a  difficulty,  to  provide  you  with  guidance  and  support,  to  aid  you  physically,   emotionally  or  spiritually.   They  may  seem  like  a  godsend and  they  are.  They  are  there  for  the   reason  you  need  them  to  be.  then  without   any  wrongdoing    on  your  part   or  at an  inconvenient  time,  this  person  will  say  ar  do  something  to  bring  the  relationship  to  an  end.  Sometimes    they  die ,   sometimes   they   walk   away  ,  Sometimes  they  act  up  and  force  you  to  take  a  stand .  What  we  must  realize  is  that  our   need  has  been    met,  our   desire  fulfilled,  their  work  is  done.  The  prayer  you   sent  up has  been  answered  and  now  it  is  time  to  move  on.

LIFETIME  relationships  teach   you   lifetime  lessons,  things  you  must  build    upon  in  order  to  have a  solid   emotional  foundation.  Your  job  is  to  accept  the  lesson,  love  the  person  and  put  what  you  have  learned  to  use  in  all  other  relationships  and  areas  of  your  life.  It  is  said  that  love  is  blind  but  friendship  is  clairvoyant.

Thank  you  for  being  part  of  my  life  ,  whether  you  were  a   reason,  a  season   or  a  lifetime.

wen u luv someone say it out loud..
alisin ang PRIDE s srili ang mhalaga
alam niyang mahal mo sya,
wag mgisip n d k niya mahal

Message:
May isang girl
na naghihintay
sa kanyang boyfriend..

[1st
day]
She sent a msg:
"Miss u na! Wat tym ka ppunta?

She’s waiting for the reply
kaso waLa..

?lt;/SPAN>2nd
msg:?lt;BR>"I
txtd u knina pro
bkt dka ngrepLy?
Wt tym kba ppunta?
I need

ur

answer asap!!
But she waited
for 5 hours La pa ring repLy..
Sa sobrang asar
ini-off nya ang CP nya…
And said…
"I will not open this cell
unLess ppunta xa d2…
After few minutes
nka2Log Na rin xa…

[2nd
DAY]
She’s still
wating for her boyfriend..
Mag pparing sa fone tp0s ba2..
she told herself…
"does he luv me p b?!"
"he knows nmn pg ng pa2ring akoh…
i’m expcting his call…"
untill its evening no one came,
no one called…
her CP still off..

[3rd
DAY]
>she’s still w8ting; ng pa2ring
after a few hours d fone rung…
she ans it quickly…
"hello"
>on d other line..
"hon…ilove u very much..
bglng ng busy..
glit n glit na umupo sa s0fa..
at nano0d ng t.v…
>after a few mins…
my kumatok
she stood quickly…nd opend d do0r…
she was surprised when she saw her bf
standing outside d do0r…
> w/ go0d looks..white long sleeves… nd
white pants…
d guy says…
"come w/ me… yaAn moh
kng bumwi sau"
she ans…
"w8 ill juz…..
"come lets go…
>after few mins. they’re on d plce…
sa houz ng guy…
knbahan xa….
she’s asking….
wat happend…
bat ang dming tao…at my
red light….
wats that..?! (she stopped 4 a while)
"

ur

mom"
>wlng sg0t..d guy 0nly
lo0ked at her face…
>bglng may 2mwg s knya…
She was shocked when she saw d guy’s
mom
crying and embraced her…
"c0me w/ me!
>sa buong pg aaklng nksunod
sa knya ang guy….
on d do0r….she was shocked when
she saw a dead person infr0nt
of her…..
she lo0ks at her back…
but d guy is g0ne…..
>where did he go.. wla nmn xang
nkitang dumAan infr0nt of her…
d mother said…
"bat ngaun k lng pumunta
khp0n p koh ng te2xt sau!
per0 nk-off ang phone moh…

she opend her CP nd sit 4 a while…
nd read d msg…
there were 5 unread msgs…

>she open d 1st msg..
"hija, my s0n is now 50/50
c0me here he neede u…
>2nd
msg…
"pls c0me hir or reply….i need it now…"

>3rd
msg…
"my s0n is
on comatose….
can u visit him now
you’re his strength"…

>4th
msg…
"hija my
s0n is dead"
and then she cried knowing..
that her love is now gone in her lyf…
>naicp nya ung ngyri…..
she’s with d guy
for the past few hours….
and she thought, thought and thought…
hanggang dumating
ang knyng pag iicp
sa guy….
"c0me lets go"….
"dalawin moh nmn ako..
khit sa huling araw ng lamay koh…!

pls repost this story….

b coz this story gives u the idea that..
d person u love….might soon be gone
anytym….
dont hesitate to tell them that u luv them
so
much!!

i believe dat anytym u could lose someone
you love…
kahit gano moh cya kamahal…
kahit gano kayo nagpakahirap pra lamang
sa
pagmamahal..
sometyms der will come a wrong tym..
dat u myt lose that someone that u really
love most!!

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  Love in the Hands of Discipline

A positive self esteem will help your child take on challenges, achieve better, live happier, make friends and cope in acceptable ways with the stresses of living. Most websites I saw will have you believe that if you criticize your child you lower their self esteem and by praising them you increase it. But the truth is far from such 1 -2 -3. A positive self esteem in such a scenario does not come automatically. It needs to be nurtured by parents who understand that they must share their pain as well as their glory with the kids they are bringing up.
Give Credit where it is due: Consistently applaud genuine EFFORTS made by your child. Help them understand how to convert efforts to results. A corollary is that you should let them feel proud of how they are shaping up, rather than keeping credit for parenting them well. Let them know it is up to them to be good or bad, happy or sad, appreciated or despised.
Do NOT Praise Excessively: Don’t tell them they are the best at an activity when they are not. Kids are internally programmed to learn and will benefit much more from a realistic feedback than unbound praise. Remember the rest of the world will give them accurate feedback and you don’t want to lose credibility.
Train them to Earn Their Rewards: When they ask you for a favour or even money to buy a candy, let them plan for it, work for it and "earn" it. It will give them a sense of self worth money can’t buy.
Give Them Responsibilities: In keeping with their age, let them be responsible for clothing themselves, clearing the dinner table, making the beds, putting away their toys or whatever else. Let them feel useful in the household.
Let Them Fall and Rise Up: This is a tough one especially since we want to protect them from all hurt. Still don’t rush to help them out of their predicaments. Help them figure out a way of getting out of their tangles.
Give Choices: In matters where you can risk it, let them make their own decisions and ask them to justify them to you. Display your trust in their judgement. Let them set their bedtime, playtime and TV time. Let them work out the effect of their choices and learn from mistakes. The best gift you can give them is to praise their judgement.
Discipline, Discipline, Discipline: Never be afraid to discipline your child. Be reasonable, be consistent and don’t let your temper run away with you. Beyond that, set limits, make sure they are adhered to. Limits give kids a sense of security and also build self esteem.
Too much of love will not spoil your kid, but how you express it may well decide whether or not your child will turn out to be a fine and balanced grown up.

             DO  NOT  SPOIL 

             WHAT  YOU  HAVE

             BY  DESIRING  WHAT

             YOU  DONT  HAVE

             RATHER…

             REMEMBER  THAT 

             WHAT   YOU HAVE  NOW

            WAS….

            ONCE  AMONG 

            THE  THINGS   YOU  ONLY   

            HOPED  FOR…………

  wALAnG  komplikasyon

   ang buhay mo noon:

   kalooban moy panatag

   kalangitan ay maliwanag

   ang daan ay tuwid at patag

   sa buhay mo noon.

   Ngunit bawat pusong naglalakbay,

   dumarating sa sangandaan:

   Ngayong narito ka,

   kailangang magpasya.

   Aling landas ang susundin ng puso?

   Saan ka liligaya,  saan mabibigo?

   Saan ka tutungo?

   Kay daling  sumunod

   sa hangin at agos:

   Aasa  ka na ang dalangin,

   gagabay sa’yong  damdamin.

   Ngunit saan ka dadalhin

   Ng hangin at agos?

   Alam mong bawat pusong nagmamahal,

   dumarating sa sangandaan:

   Ngayon narito ka ,

   kailangang magpasya.

   Aling landas ang susundin ng puso?

   Saan ka liligaya, saan mabibigo?

   Saan ka tutungo?

                                wen  ever  ur  world  turns  dark……

  think  of  me   as  ur  sun  ,

                               and  d  day  after  4ever……………

                                   nO  OnE  CaN   Go   BaK

                                           AnD   MakE  a   NeW   BeGiNiNg

                                     BuT  AnYoNe  CaN  StaRt   FrOm  NoW

                                          AnD   MaKe  A   Hapi  EnDinG…………

                                         HOpE    yOu’ll  HaVe   a  DaY

                                          ThAt  StArTs  RiGhT   AnD

                                            Endz   HAppy……….

ThE wOrlD  Can bRiNg YoU dOwN,

It cAn gEt yOu  wRoNG

iT cAn  gIvE   yOu  pAiNs

AnD  eVen  WaNnA  mAkE  yOu

GivE  Up……..

bUt iN  tHe  EnD,

jUst LOoK  BaCk

AND  ReMemBeR

"iM  wItH  You  AlL  AlOng."

                                              BEING  VISIBLE

                                                            ISN’T     ALWAYZ   A  REQUIREMENT

                                                           FOR  BEING  CLOSE

                                                           IT  JUST  TAKES  SOME  THOUGHTFULNESS

                                                            AND  CONCERN   TO  KEEP  THE  BOND.

KgAbi  nTanoNG kO  Sa SRiLI Ko………

"HaNgANg  KeLAn Ko  KyA

KaIBIgAN   ToNG   TaONG  ItO?"

InUmAgA   Na Ko,  Di KO  PA

NaSaSaGoT!   

NpANGiTI   AkO,

SbAy  SaBI…..

"HaNGaNG   MaY   UmAgA,

KaIBIGaN   KITA".